Ylang Ylang: The Flower of Healing and Harmony
- Maria Low
- May 23
- 3 min read
Updated: 7 days ago

Origins and Cultivation
Ylang Ylang embodies a unique essence not found in other flowering plants. It thrives in the Philippines, Madagascar, Reunion Island in the Pacific Ocean, and at the Young Living Finca Botanica Farm in Ecuador. Visitors to the Ecuador farm, especially those feeling unwell, are encouraged to stroll among the rows of Ylang Ylang, particularly in the evening when the flowers release a gentle mist of their calming oil into the air. This fragrance soothes the nervous system, instills a sense of peace, and fosters a connection to one’s spiritual life, relationships, and emotional wounds.
Cultural Significance
In the South Pacific, women adorn their hair with Ylang Ylang flowers and apply the oil to their hair and skin. The oil’s captivating aroma is said to attract romantic interest. In Indonesia, it is customary for newlyweds to find yellow Ylang Ylang petals scattered on their marriage bed. Modern women often dab Ylang Ylang oil on the hem of their dress for an evening of socializing.
Emotional and Spiritual Benefits
Known as the "Flower of Flowers," Ylang Ylang is believed to balance masculine and feminine energies, enhance spiritual awareness, and promote emotional healing. With regular use, individuals report improved relationships with their mother or grandmother, feeling inspired to reconnect and address challenges. By calming the nervous system, Ylang Ylang reduces stress, softens emotional barriers, and encourages love to flow freely. The oil’s molecular weight allows it to linger on the skin, and when inhaled, it positively influences the brain through the limbic system, circulating benefits throughout the body.

Health and Therapeutic Uses
According to the Essential Oils Desk Reference, Ylang Ylang alleviates conditions such as anxiety, inflammation, cardiovascular issues, hypertension, hair loss, skin care, and intestinal problems. Its fragrance helps dispel anger and low self-esteem, enhances mental clarity, flushes negative energy, and promotes confidence and peace. In regions where Ylang Ylang is integral to daily life, people tend to harbor fewer negative emotions.
Ylang Ylang can be applied directly from the bottle or diluted with a carrier oil for sensitive skin or children. It can be used on the scalp, hair, Vita Flex points on the feet and ankles, or any desired area. It can also be diffused, added to beverages as a dietary supplement, or worn as a fragrance or perfume. Many Young Living products, including skin care, bath gels, and Rose Ointment, contain Ylang Ylang.
Caution: Use sparingly if you have low blood pressure. Ylang Ylang makes a thoughtful gift and is an excellent introduction to essential oils for teenagers interested in learning more.
Note: The recommendations in this article apply only to Young Living Essential Oils, which adhere to the Seed to Seal standard for purity and potency. Adulterated or improperly distilled oils may cause adverse effects. Some people experience side effects from low-quality oils purchased online or in stores and mistakenly assume all essential oils are irritants. Young Living’s extensive library and testing labs ensure the highest-quality essential oils consistently available on the market.
Essential Oil Blends
Ylang Ylang Circulation Blend
May support cardiovascular function, reduce hypertension, alleviate stress, improve hemorrhoids, and enhance lymphatic system health.
Recipe:
24 drops Goldenrod
10 drops Cypress
8 drops Marjoram
5 drops Ylang Ylang
Apply directly to the desired area or dilute with a carrier oil for sensitive skin.
Emotional Release Blend
This blend promotes harmony, helps release anger and anxiety, and fosters peace at a cellular level. It is potent and may require dilution with a carrier oil, such as Young Living’s V-6. Apply to the ears or the vagus nerve behind the ear for enhanced effect.
Recipe:
20 drops Chamomile
30 drops Ylang Ylang
25 drops Geranium
15 drops Sandalwood
10 drops Pine
Combine in a glass bottle and roll between palms 12 times to blend. It is ready for use.
Hair Loss Prevention Blend
Recipe:
6 drops Rosemary
8 drops Ylang Ylang
12 drops Cedarwood
12 drops Clary Sage
Application: Apply directly or dilute 50/50 with a carrier oil. Massage vigorously into the scalp for 2–3 minutes. Leave on for 60–90 minutes, then shampoo. These oils can also be added to shampoo. Note: Essential oils may affect tinted hair color.
References:
Essential Oils Integrative Medical Guide – D. Gary Young
Essential Oils Desk Reference – Life Science Publishing
The Essential Oil Complete Reference Guide – KG Stiles
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